A Big Mistake We Make When "Looking For Love"
I've noticed a common pattern among us who are in search of a relationship. We desire to share our worlds with another, so much so, that the moment we meet someone with a good quality or two, we go all in. Often times we're left disappointed. The disappointment comes from imagining the possibility of this person being "the one", without ever giving things a chance to bloom. We immediately make expectations and we fantasize about this person fitting into a specific role, instead of seeing the situation at face value. The worst part is we get angry at the person for not being who we assumed they would be. When it comes to finding "the one", we cannot assume. When in search of love, indeed you should set personal expectations for what you want out of a relationship. The problem is assuming that everyone you encounter must meet those expectations. Nobody is obligated to meet your requirements. Dating is mandatory. This is the stage where you allow people to