This Is Our Experience

I talk a lot about this topic because much of our suffering comes from taking the opinions of other people to the heart. We say "I don't care what people think", but when we overhear others gossiping about us, we get upset. We internalize what they say. "When you are genuinely a great person with good intentions, focusing on your personal growth, enjoying life and showing compassion for others,  you already won the battle before it started!" -My higher self I noticed a woman (someone I've known for a while, long story) frowning at my car. At first I thought she was frowning at me,  as she has done in the past, but I later realized she was appalled by the paint chipping off of the hood of my car. 😂 For a quick second, I felt offended. Then the message that I quoted above came through. No need to try and convince them to change their mind about you. No need for any animosity towards them. No need to prove them wrong or seek revenge. Think abou

A few months ago, I had a very interesting thought. What would happen if I changed the negative thoughts I had about certain people, to positive thoughts? For example, if I labeled someone as a liar, what if I countered that with "This person may have lied before, but this person could still be awesome. Anyone can change." I figured this would be a challenge for me because I am a practical thinker. If you've lied to me several times, you are, indeed, a liar in my book. However, when I have ill feelings towards someone, it usually doesn't sit well with me. Sometimes the feelings aren't necessarily ill. There may be people who have rubbed you the wrong or your friends may tell you something about someone and you might subconsciously assume that person's character. I no longer resonated with this way of being. Changing how you view others will benefit both you and them. You get the peace and satisfaction of learning how to be more open minded and compass

"Things are going too well, something is bound to happen." "There's always a calm before the storm." "This is too good to be true." We've all used one of these phrases at some point. Years ago, I repeated these things so much that they became a part of my belief system. The law of attraction is always working, rather we are paying attention or not. Our realities are created based off of our beliefs. What we believe, we receive. Therefore, if you believe that having a great day is far-fetched, you won't have great days. Before I had my spiritual awakening, I felt lost. I thought that my life was full of random events and that I had no control, whatsoever. Looking back, I realize my beliefs influenced many of those "random events". When things went well for me, I would think "Oh man, what's about to happen?". I was literally creating unpleasant experiences for myself because I was  expecting  them. I believe we r

I recently came to the realization that I have people in my life that are compatible with my old self. These are people that I love and care about, but they no longer resonate with who I currently am. When you begin to unlearn old ways of being, you step into your authentic self. During this process, you inevitably start to notice that the company you keep may not benefit you anymore. This does not mean they are bad people. If you feel uncomfortable, or you feel like you can't say certain things without being judged negatively, these people are most likely not your soul tribe. There are some friends and relatives who subliminally disrespect/insult you and it may fly over your head, but your spirit will feel it. For example, when I first mentioned I wanted to be a homemaker, one response I got from someone was "Oh, I couldn't do it. I'm not the type to sit around with my hand out..." Another person's response was "That's awesome! I know a bun

Many people feel stagnant and unsuccessful because they are comparing their progress to other people's progress. Some people feel like they aren't making it anywhere because they haven't made a "big" accomplishment. We believe that material or financial gain is what makes us successful. This is not necessarily true. Anything that you are consistently working on improving, you will see progress in. You can work on your handwriting, you can expand your vocabulary, you can avoid arguments, when normally you engage in them. If you are usually sad and you notice that as of lately, you've been having more content days, that is a HUGE accomplishment. I have a history of depression so personally, having happy days is considered major progress to me. Everyday you are making progress, just pay attention.  Anytime you notice your growth, try writing it down. If you've made it a habit to wear your seatbelt, write it down. If you are beginning to stand up for y

We are creators, Gods, Goddesses, source energy, etc.  We are a part of the universe. With that being said, we are POWERFUL. We have the ability to create whatever we want. When I set an intention to manifest, I do not hope for it . I am CERTAIN that my manifestation will come into fruition. If God had to hope, we would view God as unreliable. People would probably even lose faith. We are certain that God is certain.  If we are made in God's image, we too are Gods.  Therefore, there is no need to ever "hope". I have never created anything through hoping. I believe in my power.  This word carries energy of powerlessness.  It's used by people who are unaware of who they really are and what they are capable of. I encourage you to stand firm in your own power.  Take "hope" out of your vocabulary and start believing in yourself, 100%. Peace, love and light 🥰