This Is Our Experience

Deliberate manifesting is second nature to me. I'm not going to give you a complicated esoteric explanation of how I do it,  just a few steps that can possibly be simple, if you choose to make it simple. Clean up your beliefs.  This step requires honesty and mindfulness. If you want to manifest the love of your life, being honest and mindful will help you notice possible issues within yourself.  You might have toxic characteristics that could sabotage the relationship. For example, you may have a belief about yourself that you are a lazy or ugly. You should address this issue, figure out why you believe it and transmute this belief to something more productive.  Affirmations.  This is one of the easiest ways to reprogram your mind and manifest. Self love affirmations are amazing to start with. You can listen to them on YouTube, write down your own and say them out loud, or if you're extra like me, you can record yourself saying them, add some music, and bo...

I am a strong believer in the power of words. I feel that we have the ability to speak things into existence, heal our bodies, create our realities and much more, with the use of our words. I speak kind words to my body/organs, my food, my water, my flowers, practically everything around me gets a positive conversation! I recently resumed my hair journey. This time around, I decided to give my hair consistent verbal praise. As I massaged my scalp with oil or conditioner,  I would say things such as "Thanks for being so healthy and thick." "I'm so amazed at how fast you grow!" "Thank you for allowing every hair product I use on you to nourish and strengthen you." (I also spoke gratitude to the hair products as I used them.) I also visualized my hair being the way I wanted it to eventually be. So far, I've been speaking to my hair and hair products everyday for the past 2 weeks.  During this time,  my hair has improved DRASTICALLY. My ha...

When we have repetitive experiences,  our minds begin to believe that we will always get certain results in certain situations.  For example, if you continuously apply for jobs, but the employers never call you back, most likely you will start to believe that you have "bad luck" regarding employment. You might become discouraged and stop filling out job applications all together. "Faith" is a term that I became familiar with when I started to attend church. Although that was almost a decade ago and I no longer attend church,  I never let go of the concept of faith. I have faith in my ability to create the life I want.  Learn how to detach from outcomes. Try not to be too specific, but instead,  be flexible about how and when you will recieve your desires. For example if you decide you want an extra $500, don't say "I want to win the lottery on blank date". When you do this, you are creating limitations. Remember, possibilities are endless! Yo...

This is one of my favorite topics! Although it's fun and exciting, there is more to this process than you may think. I will be giving you some helpful tips below! Cut ALL   ties with any ex partners I don't know why this is so difficult for a lot of women! It's like refusing to move out of a studio apartment when you have a mansion waiting for you! 😂 If you are serious about attracting the man of your dreams, you must make room for him. The universe is not going to send you a decent man, only for you to have him caught up in your baggage. Move on, sis. If your ex was your soulmate, you wouldn't be reading a blog about how to manifest your soulmate...  Start the self love journey I know, its starting to sound cliche. We cannot give love without loving ourselves first. Deliberately taking care of my mind body and soul was a game changer! I started eating better, dressing nicer, paying attention to my thoughts, validating my own feelings, etc. With this st...

Our subconscious minds respond strongly to repetition. This is why people use affirmations and audio subliminals when they want to reprogram their subconscious. We can deliberately program our minds, but most people are consuming unfiltered information, repeatedly, without realizing they are being conditioned. Did you know that we can program emotions and reactions as well? When you tell yourself a story over and over again, with the same emotions behind it, you are programming it into your mind.  Whenever this story is mentioned or thought of, your mind and body will instantly react out of habit .  "He hurt me so badly, I will never be the same." These are powerful (and detrimental) words to tell your subconscious mind. Your heart is in fact healing and you're ready to move on, but you've already told your mind numerous times that this isn't possible. This leads to confusion. We start to convince ourselves that we are damaged and suffering from trauma.  The...