This Is Our Experience

When we have repetitive experiences,  our minds begin to believe that we will always get certain results in certain situations.  For example, if you continuously apply for jobs, but the employers never call you back, most likely you will start to believe that you have "bad luck" regarding employment. You might become discouraged and stop filling out job applications all together. "Faith" is a term that I became familiar with when I started to attend church. Although that was almost a decade ago and I no longer attend church,  I never let go of the concept of faith. I have faith in my ability to create the life I want.  Learn how to detach from outcomes. Try not to be too specific, but instead,  be flexible about how and when you will recieve your desires. For example if you decide you want an extra $500, don't say "I want to win the lottery on blank date". When you do this, you are creating limitations. Remember, possibilities are endless! Yo...

Many women think that bossing up after a break up means to get a new man, look cute, take trips with the girls, etc. Although I believe these things help 100 percent, I've also found other really important ways to boss up after a break up. Disappear Completely. Change your number, deactivate your social media accounts for a bit, block his email, move to a new city. In a nutshell, vanish! This helps you prove to yourself that you don't even care to show him the new and improved you. He doesn't need to know you have a new boo, a better job, or that your skin cleared up and you look stunning. It's none of his business! Don't give him the pleasure of being able to get updates on your new life without him. You are not doing this for him, you are doing this for you. You did enough proving yourself during the relationship. You don't have to prove a damn thing to him now. Let him feel your absence! 😎 Don't be sad for too long Everything points us towa...

This is one of my favorite topics! Although it's fun and exciting, there is more to this process than you may think. I will be giving you some helpful tips below! Cut ALL   ties with any ex partners I don't know why this is so difficult for a lot of women! It's like refusing to move out of a studio apartment when you have a mansion waiting for you! 😂 If you are serious about attracting the man of your dreams, you must make room for him. The universe is not going to send you a decent man, only for you to have him caught up in your baggage. Move on, sis. If your ex was your soulmate, you wouldn't be reading a blog about how to manifest your soulmate...  Start the self love journey I know, its starting to sound cliche. We cannot give love without loving ourselves first. Deliberately taking care of my mind body and soul was a game changer! I started eating better, dressing nicer, paying attention to my thoughts, validating my own feelings, etc. With this st...