For the Single Girlies

I'm reading a book titled "The Single Christian Woman's Guide" by Russelyn Williams. I am not a Christian, but I'll always appreciate a good book. I believe in taking what I need and leaving what I don't.

I'm not finished the book yet, but I want to talk about a chapter I recently read. It's called "Just because you are single doesn't mean you should be available". She compared dating to the Olympics. She says that when athletes participate in the Olympics, they compete for the crown and they understand that there are certain rules and ways of preforming that have to be honored in order to win. People have to be professional athletes to enter this competition. They must be qualified. She goes on to say that the same dynamic applies when dating. We cannot just let any man into our lives. We should have standards and requirements that must be met in order for a man to "win" us. You are the Olympics and your future husband is a man who has trained himself to be the best competitor. He wants to win your love.

I love this analogy because it instantly puts me into the energy of being a prize, a queen, a woman who is valuable and worth being loved, respected and courted. 

If you are a woman in her single season who eventually wants marriage, I suggest this book. :)

Peace and love ❤