This Is Our Experience

I've noticed a common pattern among us who are in search of a relationship. We desire to share our worlds with another, so much so, that the moment we meet someone with a good quality or two, we go all in. Often times we're left disappointed. The disappointment comes from imagining the possibility of this person being "the one", without ever giving things a chance to bloom. We immediately make expectations and we fantasize about this person fitting into a specific role, instead of seeing the situation at face value. The worst part is we get angry at the person for not being who we assumed they would be.  When it comes to finding "the one", we cannot assume.  When in search of love, indeed you should set personal expectations for what you want out of a relationship. The problem is assuming that everyone you encounter  must meet those expectations. Nobody is obligated to meet your requirements.  Dating is mandatory. This is the stage where you allow people to...

-Latesha Renee

I posted this on Reddit today in the Neville Goddard sub. Enjoy! 5m              How I manifest whatever I want by being patient!! Many people are impatient when manifesting. When you want something NOW the last thing you want to hear is "just be patient". So when I become a little impatient I will put myself in a state where I feel like I have everything I want and need. I will literally become the woman who has everything she desires. For example, instead of waiting on that check, I'll spend my time being calm, and saying things to myself like "Look at how easily things come to me! I never have to worry because whatever I want always comes to me quickly." Imagine how you would feel if the bills and the mortgage or whatever you need the money for is already paid. That's exactly what's going to happen anyway so why be stressed in the meantime? Completely ignore the thoughts that don't align with those things being paid. Just stay in the state of ...

 Everything is easy for me. 🥰🥰🥰

"Control freaks" don't mean any harm, they're just operating from a place of fear. If you are in charge of all the details, how could anything possibly go wrong, right?  Well, I have an even better idea. Learn to operate from a place of LOVE instead. I used to try and control my relationships and friendships and I always failed because we cannot control people. Attempting to control others makes everything unnecessarily chaotic. I wanted control because I thought it would prevent me from heartbreak and disappointment.   One day I sat with myself and realized that I don't need to be terrified of hurt or pain. I've been through enough to know that yes, pain is uncomfortable, but I've gotten through it before. Now, when I connect with people I don't obsess about how I can try to prevent someone from possibly hurting me. Instead, I love with all my heart. I'm confident knowing that I am secure in MYSELF and that my emotional well being is not dependent...

Nothing has meaning until you give it meaning. That's right, you are in charge of how you interpret things. Nothing is bad or good until you choose the label and assign it. It doesn't matter what you've been told your whole life.   I've always thought that if someone disrespected me, I had to demand that respect back by fighting. This is because I grew up in a rough environment where this was an unspoken rule. As I got older, more self aware and less ego driven, I realized that I don't care too much about insults or verbal confrontation. I don't have to demand respect from anyone, especially by putting my hands on them. I don't have to take words so personally. The respect I care the most about is self respect. I learned to walk away from people who use words to try and hurt others. I don't have to try and change their mind or prove my worth by hitting them. It's not required of me to respond to others with anger and violence. This is an example of c...

 I always talk about the importance of being mindful because it is truly vital. Our environment, the way we were raised, and media, play a big part in or perspectives and beliefs.  If you find yourself feeling unsatisfied with the way your life is, pay close attention to your thoughts. You may have beliefs that don't align with where you want to be in life. For example, people who are poor may believe wealth is far-fetched or a person who wants love may attract terrible relationships because they might have been raised in an environment where dysfunctionality was normal. In order to break free of beliefs that don't fit in your life anymore, you must learn to be self aware by catching your thoughts.  Spend a day monitoring your thoughts. Especially your dominant thoughts. I was anxiety ridden for years, so my dominant thoughts made me feel fearful and worried 70% of the time. I didn't notice this until I consciously decided to pay attention to what I was thinking on a day...